Couples who have been together for a long time feel the same excitement in a relationship after a while. Passion is very low, especially when it comes to sex. Now psychologists have tried to find out the reason behind it. In a study of hundreds of people, the couple was asked why they felt that their romance was not as vibrant as before and that their sex life was not good.
Many reasons came up
The study is published in the journal Evolutionary Psychology. The study asked a variety of questions from volunteers. Of these, psychologists have identified a total of 78 factors that reduce a couple’s sexual arousal. The first reason is the loss of enthusiasm.
Lack of time
The second biggest reason is lack of time. Apart from that many people complained that their partner tries to keep an eye on them all the time. Which causes a kind of pressure to be felt.
Troubled by partner’s bad habit
Ranked 10th on this list are responsible for the fear of remembering X at the time of sex and being bored with the partner. Some people in the study have found harassment from friends and relatives who live with a partner all the time. Habits such as a partner’s drinking and gambling have also been shown to cause a worsening of sex life.
Also reason to work late into the evening
Research has found that psychologists have similar reactions in men and women. Most men, however, admit that they fail to maintain their relationship or remain loyal to their partner. So more late working women than men have also been shown to be a cause of bad sex life.
Behavior also has an effect
Things like lack of coordination or disagreement over sex with a spouse have come out more among people who have been stating the reason for work for a long time. Apart from that, the reasons behind the loss of sexual desire are also due to the character of the partner and his bad behavior.
Less impact on sex life than meeting betrayal
The most annoying thing in this research is that the reason for not having sex due to betrayal is found at the bottom. That is, there were very few couples in the research who stopped having sex after being betrayed by their partner.
Intimacy is important in relationships
The research was conducted by researchers at the University of Nicosia in Cyprus. Professor Menelos Apostolo, the study’s lead author, said it was important to have intimacy in a relationship. However, many people find it very difficult to do so. Many people experience emotional pain due to lack of intimacy.